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We get asked all the time for ideas on what kinds of things you can do in a long distance D/s relationship, sexual and non-sexual. This week’s episode is a quick rundown of different...

We use the term “cheering up” but another good word could be “pleasant distraction.” These are the moments when you get your partner to come out of their bad/worried/tense mood for a moment and...

In this week’s minisode, I’m breaking down the big three safety philosophies in BDSM. If you’re trying kinky things or exploring power exchange with a partner, you need a safety strategy. Pick the one...

Y’all. We’re exhausted (aren’t we all)?! And we just didn’t have it in us to come up with a topic and ramble about it for 90 minutes. So we put out the call for...

Is this list exhaustive? No. Does it explain every nuance of submission on the entire spectrum of a power exchange? Also no. But for anyone who believes there’s only “one way” to be a...

We’re keeping it fun and light this week and providing an actual thought exercise! Using the concept of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, we figure out our hierarchy of kinks. Feel free to play along...

In the first of our podcast mini-sodes, I’m sharing a rundown of different types of BDSM collars, for those who find collars important to their power exchange and kinky fun. Enjoy! A big thanks...

In the first of our podcast mini-sodes, I’m sharing a rundown of different types of BDSM collars, for those who find collars important to their power exchange and kinky fun. Enjoy! A big thanks...

This week’s topic was inspired by a tweet and someone else’s questions about compatibility (Thanks, Darling Nikki!). It got us thinking about it in our own relationship. We’re not sharing “tips” or “wisdom” here,...

Life is…weird, hectic, stressful. And we’ve learned (over the years) that when we spend time with our kinky community, we often feel better, We hope you do, too. With that in mind, we’ve decided...