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Life is…weird, hectic, stressful. And we’ve learned (over the years) that when we spend time with our kinky community, we often feel better, We hope you do, too. With that in mind, we’ve decided...

Life is…weird, hectic, stressful. And we’ve learned (over the years) that when we spend time with our kinky community, we often feel better, We hope you do, too. With that in mind, we’ve decided...

Buying new BDSM gear and toys is a lot of fun. And we both buy and sell kinky fuckery items all the time. But you don’t need money to get kinky. Your own imagination...

It’s still early days for many of us in terms of working from home, social distancing, and the impact of COVID-19 will have on us as individuals and in our D/s relationships. Consider this...

Navigating a power exchange relationship is exciting and amazing, but it’s also fraught with what-ifs and a lot to learn. It doesn’t surprise me that kinksters question things in a D/s relationship that they’d...

Kinky scenes mean something different to everyone. Sometimes they’re highly planned, very elaborate, need a bit of equipment, and play into a very specific fantasy. And some scenes are much more relaxed and more...

This week’s topic was inspired by a conversation with one of our kinky patrons who decided to focus on friends in the kink community while she’s single. While “friends first” isn’t a requirement for...

Disclosure: We received this product in exchange for an honest review. Also, because we’ve loved the Butters for a very long time, we’re also an affiliate. If you use our coupon code to make...

Content warning: While Amy doesn’t discuss abuse in detail within the post, the topic clearly touches on it. Take care of yourself first and foremost. Read this when and if you’re up for it....

How did it take us 200-plus episodes to FINALLY discuss smart-ass masochists (SAMs), brats, and sassy submissives? We don’t know either! But here we are! In this episode: Subscribe to our newsletter! What is...