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Could we encompass every belief or philosophy we have about BDSM in one episode? No way. And if you’ve listened to any past episodes you already have a clear idea of what we think....

We’ve discussed drop before but specifically to submissives after subspace or as a reminder that yes, Dominants experience drop, too. This week, we’re sharing five things we think you need to know about drop,...

BDSM negotiation sounds so formal, doesn’t it? And it can be, if that’s your thing. But it doesn’t have to be. If you picture a boardroom table, people in suits, and a lot of,...

It took forever to figure out how to explain this week’s episode in a concise way but “coming out of hibernation” is fairly close. We mean the hibernation we’ve gone through during current stressful...

This week it’s just the tip, y’all…just five tips on figuring out, dealing with, and using BDSM titles. Have we talked about the topic a LOT in the past? Absolutely. Why? Because it’s both...

There’s nothing wrong with getting your kink on with cam models. If you’re venturing into that world, you may wonder if your kink request is “weird” or unusual. It probably isn’t! In this sponsored...

This isn’t exactly a new topic, but its one we’re finally giving its own episode — how can sex be part of our dynamic when one or both of us don’t want sex? We...

We’re baaaa-aaaaack with minisodes — shorter (for us) episodes to give you quick tips, information, and our thoughts on a bite-size BDSM topic. In many cases we’ve already talked about these in a longer...

We’ve had a few things to say about BDSM titles and labels over the years — because for many, finding the “right” word is important. But that sense of importance can make the process...

This week’s episode was inspired by a question we received from a listener on how to handle your D/s relationship being on a break or pause. We share our experiences and our thoughts on...