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We believe dominance is about leadership just as much (if not more) than it’s about power and control. John Brownstone considers himself a servant leader. In this week’s episode, we’re talking about what servant...

Call it submissive training or behavior modification (or something else) but trying to change someone’s behavior (yours or a partner’s) isn’t always easy. While a lot of people use discipline and punishment, it’s not...

You know you’re kinky, maybe you know you want a power exchange relationship. It’s on your mind, and you can’t stop thinking about it. You know you need to talk to your partner but...

Can anyone else believe we reached episode 273 before devoting an entire episode to impact play?! Neither can we! But here we are! Warning, this is a loooong episode because even with an attempt...

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BDSM checklists are great for figuring out what kinks you want to try, what you don’t want, and what you’re not sure about. Because they get recommended so often (especially to newer kinksters), we...

We’ve talked about consent a LOT around here. (Scroll to the end for a list if you want to deep-dive into this topic). And we’ll continue doing so because (in our view) it’s one...

We want everyone to have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. But we also know that not every relationship is meant to last. Staying in one that doesn’t serve you or the other person doesn’t...

It will come as no surprise when we tell you 2020 saw not just a jump, but an eruption in the number of people starting up their computers for some BDSM fun and games....

Spend any amount of time online or in some local kink communities, and you’ll come across someone with an opinion of what makes you a “real” kinkster. Or someone who devises ridiculous hoops to...