Q&A: Does the Kink Community Welcome All Body Types?

by Kayla Lords · Published December 16, 2024 · Updated December 15, 2024

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This week, a plus size kinkster wants to let it all hang out at the dungeon, but not if they’ll be the only plus size person there.

Here’s the question:

I really want to get involved in my local kink community and my Dom is all for it. I’m a very outgoing extrovert and I’m not SUPER worried about being shy or anxious in the kink space. One thing that has me feeling a bit concerned is that I’m a plus sized girlie and I’m a little concerned about having my body on display.

I know that undressing and playing is your choice and you don’t have to do anything without your consent, but the thing is that I WANT TO, I’m just nervous about maybe being around a lot of people who don’t look like me and feeling a bit insecure.

Are there all kinds of body types at clubs/dungeons or is there primarily one body type (being not plus sized at all) that dominates the scene? Is it welcoming of all body types?