Q&A: Is It OK for Subs to Call Me Sir When We Meet?
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This Dominant knows not to come on too strong when getting to know submissives, but some of them call him “Sir” from the very beginning, and he’s not sure if it’s a problem or not.
Here’s the question:
When I first started exploring, I used to start off chats with subs with my kind of “expectations” and quickly learned that not only does this come off really intense, but also demanding things like titles and rules obviously is not something to do right off the bat (you guys actually helped me learn that, thank you!) But I’ve noticed that a lot of subs will still call me “Sir” when we chat even though I have not asked them to, or we have not discussed it yet.
Should I say something about this, or since they’re doing it willingly is it alright to just let it happen and not really take it further until further discussions have happened?
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