BDSM Q&A

by Kayla Lords · Published December 9, 2022 · Updated December 8, 2022

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We asked for your questions over at that handle we fucking hate on Instagram, and y’all delivered! We got so many we couldn’t answer them all! If you have BDSM-related questions for us, we usually ask for them on Instagram but we also take questions during our Friday night live streams, too. And if you DM us on Fetlife or email us, we will usually get back to you, but it takes us a while.

In this episode:

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Questions asked and answered:
- Should a Daddy Dom get rid of all their work stress?
- How to be more bratty
- Should you ask for your vibrator back after a break up?
- What are our rules for dealing with conflict in our D/s relationship?
- How often do we have vanilla sex versus kinky scenes?
- If we wrote a better 50 Shades, what would our plot be?
- What’s our favorite rope shop/brand?
- Kinky Christmas gift ideas
- Is it possible for a total power exchange to be healthy?
- Tips for finding more plus-size kink representation
- What are our plans for 2023?
- What is sexual submission?
- How can you help your Dom feel their Dom self?
- What’s our favorite music to scene to?
- How much research is enough before trying a new kink?
- Are we always this playful, and how do we do D/s in front of the kids?

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