2020 Black Friday Sale Roundup | Kinking Up the Holidays
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Yes, 2020 is a dumpster-fire of a year. But that means it’s more important than ever to find pleasure wherever we can. For us that can mean all kinds of things (this is me, side-eyeing all the emotional eating I’ve done this year), but sex, pleasure, and orgasms have definitely been on the list (especially for John Brownstone). I’m a firm believer in not paying full price for anything, including sex toys. So if you’ve got cash to spend, and you want to get more for your money, we’re sharing the Black Friday sales and offers we know about from brands we love.
Whether you want to buy yourself a new sex toy or you’re trying to find the perfect gift for your power exchange or your partner, here are some of the shops/products we recommend and their Black Friday deals!
Hot Octopuss: November 25 thru December 1
We loooooove Hot Octopuss. Every new toy John Brownstone tries goes directly into his nightstand. (Fun fact: He used his Atom cock ring so much it finally died completely.) I would write odes and sonnets to the Digit vibrator if I knew how to write odes and sonnets. When they come out with a new toy, we want to use it, and even when it’s not a favorite, it’s a good toy.
The Hot Octopuss Black Friday sale lets you save up to 30 to 60 percent off their products. There are three ways to save:
- Adding a product to your cart and get the basic discount
- Get another discount when you sign up for their email newsletter (and yes, you can use it on the same sale)
- Get yet another discount when you follow Hot Octopuss on social media
- Buy two or more items and receive a pair of silicone handcuffs for free while supplies last!
No matter which way you go, you’ll save! All the details to maximize the savings are on their site
On Black Friday only (Friday, November 27) you also get the Pulse Duo Lux for the same price as the Pulse Solo Essential. That’s a potential savings of up to $79.70 for that one day! Shop after Friday and you can still take advantage of other discounts for the Pulse Duo Lux.
The Stockroom: November 25 thru December 2
The Stockroom is a shop we like because they’re kink-focused and carry a lot of products and brands we love: ElectraStim, Schlossmeister (formerly Lodbrock), and more. We recently purchased a few ElectraStim products that we haven’t had a chance to play with (or review) yet. Hopefully we’ll find the time over the holidays. We have a code that you can use when something isn’t on sale to save 15 percent, but the current sale prices are a better deal. (They run different weekly specials all the time, especially during the holiday season. Consider signing up for their newsletter or following them on social media so you always know what’s on sale).
The week of Black Friday, they have a few sales going on with different end dates.
- Save 20 percent off all ElectraStim through December 1. Shop the sale.
- Save 25 percent off all Fun Factory vibrators and dildos through December 2. Shop the sale.
If you want something else, shop the Stockroom here and use code LOVINGBDSM to save 15 percent off. (Exclusions apply. The coupon code cannot be combined with other sales.)
She-Vibe: November 25 thru November 30
We’re new to working with She-Vibe, but we’re not new to shopping with them. John Brownstone has purchased a few sex toys from them this year. One of the products made our top sex toys of the year list for 2020, too! (Unlike me, he doesn’t think he has to talk publicly about every sex toy he uses, so there are a few he bought that we haven’t reviewed (yet).)
If you’ve never purchased from She-Vibe, their shipping is discreet and quick, and their site offers a ton of great products, including a few we couldn’t find at Stockroom. Like his new fave the Tenga Spiral. They have a tiered Black Friday sale so the more you spend, the more you save.
- 10% Off Orders Of $75+ with code Vibe10
- 15% Off Orders Of $100+ with code Vibe15
- 20% Off Orders Of $125+ with code Vibe20
- 25% Off Orders Of $350+ with code Vibe25
- Free Shipping for orders of $68 or more, after discounts and before tax.
The Butters: November 26 thru December 2
We loooooooove the Butters lube and everything else we’ve ever tried from the Butters Hygienics Co.! And they’re having a Black Friday sale, too! The more you spend, the more you save!
- Free Shipping on Orders $25+
- Free Expedited Shipping on Orders $45+
- Free Expedited Shipping & $10 off Orders $60+
- Free Expedited Shipping & $25 off Orders $100+
To save a little more, use code kayla to save 5 percent off!
Elegantly Owned: Now thru November 30
Technically, this sale isn’t a “Black Friday” sale, but as the coupon code expires at the end of November, it definitely deserves inclusion on the list. Elegantly Owned has sponsored many podcast episodes of the show, including all of November. Every time they sponsor, they offer a way to save. Right now, the coupon code is BDSMHOLIDAY for 15 percent off anything in the shop. Elegantly Owned sells hand-crafted day collars as necklaces, bracelets, and anklets. You can also purchase locks separately. the best part is that you can pick your favorite color so you’re not stuck with the “typical” BDSM colors: black, red, and/or purple.
Currently, through December 10, you can also enter our giveaway done in partnership with Elegantly Owned. Six prizes are available — three collars with locks and three standalone locks. The giveaway is open internationally. You must be 18 and older to enter. Watch the video to get the details.
Shop Elegantly Owned – use code BDSMHOLIDAY to save 15 percent through November 30
Other Black Friday Sales
Okay, so all of those were a bit complicated to explain and have a few moving parts. Below is a list of sites/products we know and love and their Black Friday deals.
Mystery Vibe: 30 percent off now thru December 2
Liberator: 30 percent off with code BLACKFRIDAY (end-date unavailable, check site for details)
We-Vibe: 20 percent off with code BF20 now thru December 4
Womanizer: 20 percent off with code BF20 now thru December 4
The Kinkery (yes, US!) – 15 percent off November 27 thru November 30