The Power of Laughter and Humor in D/s Relationships

by Kayla Lords · Published August 23, 2019 · Updated August 22, 2019

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Listen to one podcast episode (or watch a video), and you know that John Brownstone and I laugh a LOT. Part of it has to do with being happy, but part of it is a mindset about the place humor has in our life and our D/s relationship.

In this episode:

Anniversary giveaway open — runs through the end of August
We laugh a lot around here — if you can’t tell.
Many people think of BDSM and D/s as a Very Serious Thing. And it is and can be — especially in terms of safety and consent.
But finding a reason to laugh — at times — can be good for you and the relationship.
Laughter and humor diffuses tension.
It helps you keep perspective on what’s important.
Having a sense of humor doesn’t mean that you don’t get upset or feel stressed, but it can help you move forward through a problem, too.
Timing is everything. An ill-timed joke or not taking a problem seriously can cause problems between you and your partner.