Getting Back Into D/s and BDSM After a Break LB112
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In episode 112, we’re talking about getting back into D/s and BDSM after you’ve been away for a while, whether it’s been a year or a decade.
In this episode:
- Maybe you stopped because of break up
- You might have hated the drama in your local community or where you were online
- Maybe you had to deal with other parts of your life and D/s or BDSM took a back seat
- You may still be in a relationship with your partner and want to re-introduce D/s or kink back into things.
- Things aren’t as different as you think.
- Treat yourself a little bit like a newbie but realize you do still know things.
- Practice, practice, practice your kinky fuckery
- If in a relationship, deal with any communication issues, bad feelings, lack of trust before you get back into D/s – D/s won’t fix those problems, only enhance them.
- Join your community – locally or online
- Research and read (or listen)
Links from the show:
When You’re Easing Your Way Back Into D/s and BDSM (blog post)
Understanding Bad Tapes in Your D/s Relationship (episode 101)
Watts the Safeword (YouTube channel)
Message or friend us on Fetlife
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