Category: Episodes

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Drama in the BDSM Community LB104

This week, in episode 104, we’re addressing a concern that several people have come to us with – what do you do when there’s drama in the BDSM community and it makes you not...

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“Tests” in D/s Relationships LB103

We’re a little bit ranty this week, but it’s all for a good cause. A new-to-us red flag appears to be submissives being “tested” on their D/s relationship without knowing it, without consenting to...

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Equality and Balance in D/s Relationships LB102

In episode 102, we’re talking about the idea of equality in a D/s relationship. We each come at this in different, but not opposite ways. Are the people in a D/s relationship equal or...

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Understanding Bad Tapes in Your D/s Relationship LB101

This week we’re talking about something we’ve mentioned in dozens of episodes but never really focused on before – understanding bad tapes (yours and your partner’s) and how they impact your life and your...

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The Top 10 Episodes of All Time…So Far LB100

We’ve finally made it to the 100th episode of Loving BDSM! Woohoooooo!!!! And how the heck did we get here? With a little help from a few good episodes and all our amazing listeners....