We hear from plenty of kinksters that Loving BDSM is their go-to resource for kink, D/s, and relationships. That’s the most flattering thing we could imagine. But we also believe that the best education is a well-rounded one. With that in mind, here are other resources we recommend to help you learn more about D/s, BDSM, and kinky fuckery.
If you’re looking for resources specific to kink and disability, click this link: BDSM and Disability Resources
Professional Help
Whether you need a kink-friendly therapist or accountant, or you have legal questions, these are the resources we recommend.
National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF)
NCSF Kink-Aware Professionals Directory
Websites to Check Out
So how are the websites different from blog? Well, usually they’re huge publications with multiple writers – and Kayla writes for some of them. They don’t always focus on the personal stories and usually discuss what you need to know.
Note: Some of these links may be affiliate links which means that if you click on them and make a purchase, we make a small commission.
Podcasts to Listen To
We know we’re not the only podcasts around. Here are a few one or both of us listen to that we enjoy!
YouTube Channels to Watch
Books to Read
Here is a (growing) list of BDSM books one or both of us have read and recommend. If you’ve read something that you loved, let us know and we’ll add it to our personal library.
Note: Some of these links may be affiliate links which means that if you click on them and make a purchase, we make a small commission.
The Loving Dominant by John Warren
Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous
50 Shades of Kink: An Introduction to BDSM by Tristan Taormino
The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism by Ayzad
When Someone You Love is Kinky by Dossie Easton/Catherine A. Liszt
Playing Well with Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams
The New Topping Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
The New Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
So there you have it, one resource to help you navigate BDSM and kink.
This isn’t everything you could possibly know, and we definitely don’t think we have all the answers. What we believe and share is based on our own research and experiences. Talk to another kinkster, and they’ll share something different. Forget about the “true” or “real” stuff in kink, and figure out what works best for you.
Remember: the only real rules of BDSM are consent and communication.
