Join 30 Days of D/s Free!

March 2022 Update: Sign-ups for the 30 Days of D/s program have been put on temporary hold while we update the program, reformat it, and consider a few other changes.

Gain a Better Understanding of What You Want and Need in Your D/s Relationship

Designed for You Whether You’re Single or in a Relationship or Just Curious

Learn More About D/s and Yourself in 30 Days for FREE!

Our simple email program will break down everything into individual topics and give you resources to learn more.

Here’s a breakdown of what you get…

  • Conversation starters for you and your partner.
  • A way to educate yourself if you’re new to D/s.
  • Journal or blog prompts to write your thoughts about D/s

One email a day for 30 days is all it takes. Instead of thinking about every kinky thing all at once, we break it down for you. It’s more manageable, and you can think through an entire subject before moving to the next. At the end of the program, you’ll have notes and ideas you didn’t have before and a way to move forward on your journey in D/s.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the 30-day program work?

Once you subscribe, you’ll receive an email every day for the next 30 days. Each one focuses on a single topic within Dominance and submission. You can use it as a conversation starter with your partner, write in your blog or journal, or talk about it with kinky friends. If you get a few ideas or learn something new, we encourage you to write down your thoughts so you can go back to them later.

How much will this cost?

Not a thing! The email program is completely free! If you don’t want an email each day, you can purchase the workbook as a downloadable PDF for $4.99, and it’s yours to use as quickly as you want. But free is good, too. Click here to purchase the workbook.

What about if I’m new to kink and D/s?

No problem! This is a great way to begin your education on Dominance and submission so that when you’re ready to enter a D/s relationship, you’re familiar with some of the possibilities and have an idea of what you want – or don’t want.

I’m already in a D/s relationship. Do I really need this?

That depends on where you’re at in your relationship. Is this a new D/s relationship and you’re still figuring out what works and what doesn’t? This can help! Has your relationship fallen into a rut, felt less kinky, or gone too vanilla? This may be the thing that gets you both interested and ready to explore again.

What’s in the 30 Days of D/s program?

While we can’t cover every single topic that might come up in your D/s relationship in 30 days, we’ve covered plenty of ground. A few topics include subspace, drop, using your safeword, handling conflict, deciding on tasks and rituals, coming up with rules, how you feel about pain (definitely not a requirement) and more!

Will this save my relationship and make my life perfect?

Uhhh, no. We’re not miracle workers. But it may help you figure out what you want and don’t want, what you need, what you hate, and how to talk to current or future partners so that you both get what you need out of a D/s relationship.

Will I have help thinking about these topics?

Absolutely! Each email includes at least one resource from the podcast or articles we’ve written. If for any reason those don’t help, you can always reply to the email and ask a question. We’ll find more resources or answer your question from our perspective.

Can I share this program with other kinksters I know?

Yes please! Forward the email to your partner or kinky friends. Share the link to the sign-up page with others. If you blog about a topic, send us a link and we’ll shout you out on social media! All we ask if for a link back to our site. We want kinky people to have happier, healthier D/s relationships. We think this program will help!